thought on a friend !

Everyone out there has two faces, one is good and other is bad. It depends on others how they take his activities. Even if a person wants to do something good for society, few will oppose that idea, as they have personal vengeance. Likewise, if a person did something very wrong, there will be few people argue his behavior was right. This applies not only to humans, also to their inventions.

Internet is one of the best innovations of 20^th century. Since its inception worldwide in 1990s, the usage of internet had increased more than 100 times. It premises people can lead a life breathing Internet. That’s how it involved in everyone’s life. Right from morning news to late night texts, Internet became the part of the humans.

Everyone knew, it’s a competitive world. An individual alone can’t stand firm against all the odds. So, a person needs a guide to achieve his goals. Those who don’t have one, found their guide in Internet.  Everything a child wants to learn is available in Internet. After getting graduation, it helps to get a job. For few, it helps to get a life partner. To an extent, it brings out people from their sorrow. When people going abroad, it helps to keep connected with their loved ones and prevent them from home sick. Home sick causes the mental stress, affects a person psychologically and sometimes leads to death. It appeared simple, but saves a life at this point.

All the companies, organisations, educational institutions, hospitals have sophisticated with internet facility. Many people doing online jobs to save their family. If people want to travel or watch their favorite hero’s movie, they need Internet to book tickets. Even organisations, concentrate more on Internet Marketing as it reach maximum number of audiences. Internet is one of the major reasons for the development of the developing nations. People can find the countries with minimum usage of Internet at the under developed nations. From an individual to the entire nation, Internet is needed to upgrade themselves to withstand among their peers.

On the down side, there are people using it for forbidden activities, affecting some serious issues to the world. Immediately, experts start up their debate and argue that Internet is bane and another set of experts defend that. Does these activities were happening only because of Internet? No, they only use Internet as a tool. Even if there is no Internet, still they will find some other tool and execute their plans precisely. Everything can’t be 100% perfect. Similarly, not all the inventions are used by people in right way.

A thief stole precious jewels when there is no electricity. The set of people who blame the thief for their carelessness are normal human being. There will be another set of people, who blame electricity as it helped the thief to steal, no comments for those from me. Internet has always been a boon for the world. It depends only on individual to use the innovations in an optimistic way. If not, then it will turn out to be bane of their life.

Keep Smiling :) God bless :)

Problems ? Smile at it !

 Few days back, while having breakfast with my friend in a hotel, I was able to sense he has some problem. I enquired him,"What happened ? why are you looking dull ?". I'm  making my mind to console him, despite the size of the problem. He said "how could west indies win the world cup, it is our home town, we have to win, right ?" I was mazed with his reply. He continued "West Indies won three world cups dude, it's a record. When are we going to break this record?". I replied "What meant to happen, was happened. England didn't win, thank god for that." He partially agreed with me and continued "it would be great if India had won the cup." I gave him a stare and asked the server to put "Pudhina Chuttney" in his plate, then told him to have as it could help him to digest West Indies victory. While thinking about this later, I had a doubt, was this a problem ?

Certainly, it was ! This would had been the problem for quarter of a billion people.

I started to think which problem makes me to feel difficult. The foremost problem of all yet to be married boys is my problem too. It's hair. You read it right!  H A I R !

I want hair at-least to cover my bald head till my marriage. I have to be look good in the photos to be taken during my marriage. I'll cherish with those photos rest of my life. I  can show my grand children, "See how handsome your grandfather was !". I can have a wig, but whenever I see those photos, somewhere in my heart I'll be in guilt. Now say, my problem is bigger than my friend isn't ?

I have few friends in a list who used to share everything to me. One from the list called me couple of days back. I guessed the reason of the call, but picked it as I was surprised. After a formal talk, slowly he came to the point, the purpose of the call, problem with his girlfriend. He wanted me to give valuable suggestion. I thought to myself, "If I was expert in this I won't be talking with you at this time !"  I told few things what I felt were right. After talking to him, I understood, I can lead my life being bald but not being in love.

This morning I happened to meet my another friend. It's been long time. We talked about our golden days. As the time goes, talk went to our future plans. Once I said mine, he replied "You knew what to do, but I'm not sure where I'm going, it's been a year we completed our education, I'm yet to get a job, unaware of what's waiting for me in life." I was baffled, managed myself to give him few tidbits. I know it won't console him, it's a mere effort from myself to keep my friend in hearts-ease.

When I getting wind to see what world’s facing, don’t want to go too far, for past one month. Starting with notorious, fire accident in Kollam. 100 died and  more than 375 injured in Kollam. Flyover in Kolkata ate 21 and left 60 with bites. While picking up little further, first thing came to my mind is Brussels Attack. Nearly 30 killed and 300 injured. Recent Earthquake at Ecuador, reports saying minimum of 570 died, totally 2,560 people went missing. Suicide attack  in Lahore took the life of 72 including 36 kids and 100 injured.

Just don’t look at the people died, see the family living in their shadow. Have a thought for injured people too. These incidents are much talked, so that I am aware of. Many more would happened and there are chances for few may went unnoticed.

Now analyze, all the things I said and say, are we living in problems ! If you are reading this, you are capable of having internet facility. This itself a great grace.

Love,  job, money is a part of life. If there is some problem in that we can sort out, what if the life itself turns to be a problem. Lets be happy with what we have and give our best to march ahead positively in life.

Keep Smiling :) God bless :)