Try to be Unique

You guys may doesn't believe, but you have no other choice. Yes I am back,  I guess what I had told in my previous post, working out very well.

This time I'm here to discuss about a vague topic. One have to understand the difference between study and learn. Few days back, read in newspaper that state rank holder in 10th died committed suicide, as can't study 12th , due to the pressure. No words, Paining.

These days many people, mainly Indians, hesitate to learn. One drawback is, right from the start , we are just following. I think that's mixed in our blood, we didn't create or tried to show our identity to others. That's the part we are lacking in our life.

I can't criticize anyone, being myself  following others footsteps. Tell you the simple example, though I know about blogs, I didn't create my own, until my friend started one. I haven't shared about my blog to anyone. When my friend said he got 1000 views to his blog, I enquired him about it. He said that he personally asked his friends to see his blog. After that only, I too shared it with you guys.

Engineering was the hot cake few years back. In some families parents stopped their education after schooling, when they see people who did graduation and settled in life, they too want their children to be like them. Engineering give you quick money, thus everyone wants their children to do it. After 12th, children too don't have any idea about future. Only thing visible to their naked eye is Engineering, due to the mass image it had. So, when parents too asking them to choose engineering, by mentioning some local names, how they settled in their life, children had no other go. They fell as prey for their parents desire, without knowing what's it all about. 

Just studying in book doesn't give you the life, you expect. If that's the case, pretty sure I will get brighter one. Jokes apart, we have to learn what is life. Life gives you room to experience all sort of feelings, you have to learn a thing every time.

This doesn't mean you don't have to follow a person. We can have a role model and idolize him, unless you lose your identity. All started following cricket, tried to become Sachin, only Virat emulated him. Even born child knows, how Virat idolizing Sachin. But he didn't follow the footsteps of Sachin. You can find out many differences between them. He knows people are blaming him for his aggressive behavior. Like dhoni, keeping his head cool is not the big job, but he doesn't. This shows his character of never lose identity.

Starting from simply thing to life changing event, we are not showing our uniqueness. We are discussing about the majority. From 120 billion, we can count in fingers who are unique in their own ways, that's not the big deal. Getting fame alone doesn't matter, I don't know how many of them heard about Arunachalam Muruganantham,( for info about him: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arunachalam_Muruganantham ) a Tamilan, who's not known among our fellow people, got recognition from TIME magazine as a the 100 Most Influential People in the world, for being unique. There are many people like him.

Satisfaction and Success comes to the people who show their Identity. It may take time to reach success. Till then we can be proud of ourselves for never backing out from the race. To tell you in more understanding way, be 1 in 10000000000000. 

Keep Smiling :) Never Lose Yourself :)

Keeping Promises the hardest thing ever

Hope everyone remembers me . If you guys were about to forget me, am here , posting my next blog, to tell you all about how I kept my promises all this month.

Despite my semester , I promised you that I will post at least one blog per week and you all know how I kept my promise, by posting my next blog after a month.  Its not that I completely forgot to write. Got many ideas on what to write, later sticked to write about Sachin, as his one year of retirement came on Nov 16. Then, planned to write an article to blame Sachin.

Yes, you all read it correct I wished to compose a post to blame, my idol, Sachin. Blaming is different from abusing. I want to blame him for many reasons, firstly for detached me from the sport I loved since my childhood. Next, he's the solo reason for the growth of cricket in a country where hockey is a national game. Many of them blaming cricket as it overshadows the other sports, but the truth is, Sachin is the person to blame for influencing the crores towards the game.

Leave it. I am here to talk, how I kept all my promises. Will blame Sachin in my next blog.

Next thing, before every exam,  I promised god , I will study next exam well and asked him to help me clear the exam gonna happen on that day. Every average student like me will keep this sort of promises.

Promised myself to do many things like visiting the temples oftenly, checking mail daily, involving myself in project works, planned to download some movies, wanna start for gate preparation, blah blah blah blah
Nothing worked out.

You may ask, then what the hell I did all this month, simply just Whatsapping.
I hadn't promised anyone. Sometimes I wonder what's there in Whatsapp, defnitely no one gonna use it usefully, except few. No wonder, the smarty Zuckerberg bought Whatsapp. Biggest and worthiest move happened in recent times. But have to accept that it gives us pleasure and make ourselves engaged with our friends and relations instantly. Feeling more happy and relaxed while using Social Networks.

It seems that I have written more than what I planned. Time to conclude.  Never promise and feel for not keeping up the promises. Just keep in the sub-memory that you want to do a thing, everyone can't do the thing within the time period. Even scientifically it's proved, nothing is 100% efficiency. Applies for humans too, not because its proved by human.

Enjoy every second. Don't look ahead in life. This may be weird. When you look ahead, you gonna feel the pressure. If you didn't believe, just think what you gonna be in future. I'll Wait.


Agreed ?
Atleast 99% of you feel some sort of pressure.This advice kinda thing is only for ordinary people like me.

This time I won't promise you guys, that I will post my next post within certain time peroid or else my mind will keep thinking on posting blog. All this blabbering is the result of one month thinking.

aahaa.. feeling relaxed
Keep Smiling :)

Keep Trying . .

I was not the same person last week when I wrote my previous blog. This time I am something else. Don't know what happened to me or what changed me.

I heard from many successful persons, very little moments will bring the great impact in our life. I guess such moments are just started in my life
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Every moment has both ends. Every ordinary individual want things to end smoothly. We know it won't happen on its own. We have to plan, put our best into it. Though it's not sure, whether we will achieve it. One thing always reminds high, we tried.

Whatever may be the thing, we have to try. From studies to love to career, unless we try we won't reach the zenith. For this a driving force is needed. That may be anything, we can't assure that force will come with us through the end. As I said it's just the driving force and we shouldn't lose our confidence, when that force left us in the middle of the road. It will turn up in both ways, that depends upon the person. We shouldn't give permission to an external force and ask it to decide on our life. We have to be practical, positive, moreover powerful.

I am just motivated by the force. It keeps me better than before. I can't expect the force to be with me all the time. It's just an additional force, even without that I have to reach my destiny.

Never get tired, when you fail. Keep one thing in mind, you tried.

Keep Trying :) Keep Smiling :)

Where's our Life going ?

Never in my life, I thought keeping the promises made were this much difficult. I always want to share something with all, the tortoise in me making me more lazy than anyone else. So, I apologize to everyone. I will try my level best to post many many Memories, without fail in upcoming days.

In the mean time, I have changed a lot. If truth to be told, I didn't change. I was made to change myself. Everyone born to live. Was everyone are living, they are just having a race with everyone. Do you all know, for what purpose they are fighting with one another ?

MONEY -  a Human Invention.

God created man, woman, trees, oceans, air, fire, land, sky in this world.

Except man, woman, none has emotions.

They have not change since the day it were created.

But we ? Six Sense Greats !

God has given us many things. Still now many scientists has no answers for various mysteries surrounding us. We are not satisfied with those, we created many things, I said MANY things. 

Of course, some of them leads us to Mars !

 Is there any use in it ? 

Who asked you to take a mission on mars, when our very own brothers and sisters living without proper food !

Who want you to search about aliens, when our people living without houses !

There is nothing wrong in knowing, what was going in our neighbor Country, Continent, Planet.

My question - Is that Necessary ?

Spending crores and crores for getting appreciation from other countries, to keep our flag high among the neighboring countries, we are doing this. Really are we in a position to do these things ? NO, is the answer. Everyone knows that.

We are losing our people. We are living in a country where the average annual income is below 1 lakh. It doesn't mean that they are born as poor and they have to live as poor.

I wont ask you to spend one fourth of your property. Help them. Just asking everyone to stop unwanted expenditures, save them, visit old aged homes or any trusts in your area and give those money, that what we ordinary people can do. We can't build houses for them. If every individual participated, we don't need to expect government to do all these stuffs, which is their prime work.

You will smile, when you saw an anonymous smiling and the reason behind is You.

Started some where and ended some where else. Keep patient with me :)

Smile is the gift given by god. Go behind Smile not money.

Keep Smiling :) 

Is Banning the teams where the only solve for Scandals ?

Though the elections are nearing  this April, except politicians no one seems to be worried about it. For past few days, World T20 and IPL Scandal case hearing in SC tops the headlines in almost every news channel. This is how, we Indians, got attached with Cricket. We forgot about scandals done by the government, which pulled India down in many ways and care about scandals in Cricket.If people of India, especially youths if they give half the importance they giving to cricket to politics, surely India will have bright future.

On the other hand, SC gives shocking proposal of banning two IPL teams - Tamilnadu based Chennai Super Kings and Rajasthan based Rajasthan Royals.Its almost proven that owners of these teams were involved in spot fixing. Earlier players like Sreesanth, Chavan were arrested for spot fixing during IPL 6. There was no harm when the players who did wrong things were arrested and punished.

 If both teams of IPL got banned, the dream of many young and enthusiastic players like Sanju Samson, Ankush Bains, Baba Aparajith etc playing for India will be shattered. What will they do for their team owners mistake ? This will mentally affects the budding players. When the top level management doing their work without giving any space for crime, we need not to be worried about anything.So without banning the whole team, we can change the owners of the respective teams. Thereby, ordering them not to be involve in any of the sports and political activities, suitably punished for their crimes.

Power in wrong hands is the disaster for any Organization.
Don't Corrupt and Don't Get Corrupt :)

First Novel

Today I strtd writing my novel tentatively titled "ONE MORE LOVE STORY" . I don't know how much will it go on, but surely I can say that it will develop my vocabulary skills .
          Coming to the story, it's about my hero Arjun's love story .
           Even I started a page in fb "un vizhi asaivil - a love story in 21st century"  a year ago. But i didn't got so much response, so i didn't write/post any thing there .
          After reading some english novels written by chetan bhagat, ravinder singh, i got an idea of writting a novel instead of posting in Facebook.
           After getting some confidence from my friends, I started writting my novel today. Writing less than a page in word document itself need a lot of patience and determination.
           Friends, I dont know how long will I take to complete the work.Hope that I will finish my work by this year end.
Here, in this column, i promise u guys to share my experience on writing the novel.
Stay Tuned :)
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