Tear Filled Eyes

Thought it'll be just another day in my diary. But, it turned out to be the most memorable day for all of us. It’s around 3 pm after completing all our works, I have been asked to initiate the proceedings. I don't know what to talk. Simply stood in front of my class. After gathering some words, started talking. Slowly got a bit emotional, tears filled my eyes. As I don't wanna cry in front everyone, stopped my speech in couple of minutes after proposing the idea of having get together at least once in a year. Once I got down, one after another occupied the stage and talked about their college life and friends circle.

I slowly started to think about how I started my college life. After completing the inauguration function, my parents left me in hostel and I was standing with tear filled eyes and waving them see you. From day one to last working day, we have shown college what we are capable of, made everyone jealous of RIOGA’12 and I don't wish to talk about what happened in next years. Went to every problem, without knowing what the problem was, only to show our unity. Fast mode walk to protect ID card, ecampus, attendance, quadrangle sights, our KG Force, security whistles, camera threats, aptitude training, record works, placements, projects and many more. Side by side, everything passed like a flash, while hearing my friends’ speech.

Some of them moved and melted me specially Niranjan, Deepak, Jairam, they spoke their heart out, Kuralarasun too. Not only with Kural, I promise that surely I’ll will be in touch with all of you and disturb you guys by sending my blog post links and will torture to read it. Have to mention one thing here, if someone says my writing is good, the whole credit goes to my school friends. Except my sister, no one knows in my family about my capability of writing blogs, stories, and verses. Without my friends, I’m just of mirage of myself. So guys, if I goes next level, your role will play a major part in it.

My college life won’t get over if I didn't mention three of them. Firstly Mech B boys, for their continuous love and support, though I was not with them for past three years. Next, my class advisors, teaching and non-teaching staffs, lab technicians. There may be some misunderstanding between us, but we can’t ignore the fact that they supported us in one way or another. Finally, wanna say a big thanks to my team “Team Beyond” for their love from day one to till now. Will miss you all.

Simply in two lines, “My college life started with tear filled eyes for missing my family and ended with the same tear filled eyes by thinking of missing you all”

Till now, I shared something about my college life and there is one more world, where I enjoyed thoroughly and emotionally attached. May be some of them didn't enjoy their college life, but I can proudly say each and every one had their best days here. That’s our Hostel Life. Will come with fresh post about my Hostel Life Experience.

I have attached the link of the song named “Vaada nanba” made by my friends. Please do hear it and support us. Finally, I wish to thank Arun Prassana Raja for his memorable work and Christopher Charles for making the evening so special. Miss you all, seems like ordinary word to express. Anyhow I have to say, “Miss you ALL buddies”.

Audio Link: https://soundcloud.com/naveen-parasuram-1/engo-irunthu-ingae-vanthomae

Keep Smiling :) Stay blessed :)

Days in Velayudhampalayam

I would like to share one of the episode from my life. Who knows, this may be the first stepping stone for my autobiography ;)

Like every engineering student, I too need to do my final year project. To be frank, I had no other choice. Where on the earth, I can go other than project centres. Many of my friends planned to do their project in Industry. So we too tried and with the help of my friend's relative, got the opportunity to do my project in TNPL, Karur.

Four batches from my college doing the project in TNPL. Some of my friends stayed in friend's home. We totally seven members shared a house in Velayudhampalayam, a small town near Karur, as we had to be there for a month. One day prior to the reporting time, we went to Karur. 

Initially I felt like a fish out of the water, as we had water problem for both drinking and bathing. Though I was staying in hostel for past three years, I didn't faced a situation similar to this. Contrary to my friends, I am a bit reserved character, so initially I felt like out of my element. But later on, found my feet's there and had many boyish funs.

I had visited my grandpa's home for vacation, but that doesn't even longs for 10 days. This is the first time am staying in a rural place for a month.

Beyond my thoughts, I lived the life of Riley. Starting from bathing to sleeping, we made use of the every resource available. First time ever, went to night show for movie. Felt the night breeze and chillness, while moving in bike (triples) at 2am. Tried to reunite my friend with his lover. Played cards till when we felt to sleep. Still the night walk we had at 3 am remains fresh. First time bathed in river and had the time of my life there. Fishing becomes the part of our life. Visited Lord Murugan temple for "Thaipusam" festival and got the opportunity to pull the temple car. Captured awesome sceneries from top of the mountain. Went to friends home and had heavy lunch couple of times. Also I have to say, learnt few things regarding project. Got the industrial exposure and came to know how the works will be done in an organization.

In between all these enjoyments, also experienced few more things. One day, I went to temple near the place where I stayed. An old man, enquired about the purpose of our visit and blessed us. I had visited many new temples in Coimbatore, no one had ever bothered me. Enquiring about us doesn't a matter, as everyone would be curious to know about the new people in their locale. But an unknown old man blessed us in the same society, where many others are waiting to see when our rivals will fall down.

We have to walk nearly 300-400 meters to have food in good hotel. Whenever I was indolence, I used to go to a street side hotel, where Paniyaram available. I paid the regular visit, so developed a good bond with the lady who running the shop. One evening, when I went to have food only 10 paniyaram available, and it was bought by someone else. She asked me to wait for some time, so that she will cook more paniyaram. At that time, landlord of the shop came and asked her to parcel paniyaram. She said that, first she will parcel for me and then only for him. She need not have to say like that. If she asked, I will wait for some more time. There are some shopkeepers, who will make us to wait, and keep doing things for their regular customer. This lady at the other side, made her landlord wait, only reason was he came after me. People out there don't show any priority, that sounds good to me. This is one more quality, I found in them.

There was also dead happened near the house we stayed. Right from morning to evening, the street was filled with peoples. Speakers were kept all over the place and continuously they played songs. This is the rare scene to see in our city side. Many people won't attend the death scenario, as they have to bath after coming from there. Life is going like this in our area.

These are small small habits that are counting worms. I felt these sorts of humanities are dying with our previous generation. Don't know what to blame or whom to blame, but ours and upcoming generation have to learn the morale of life from our predecessors.

There are many more things, I wanna share, but don't know how many of them will read till this. Atleast I want everyone who are reading, to learn what life teaching to you rather than getting confused with those stuffs. Not only I enjoyed the most but also learnt various lessons to be the better person from where I am.

Keep Smiling :) Stay blessed :)

Try to be Unique

You guys may doesn't believe, but you have no other choice. Yes I am back,  I guess what I had told in my previous post, working out very well.

This time I'm here to discuss about a vague topic. One have to understand the difference between study and learn. Few days back, read in newspaper that state rank holder in 10th died committed suicide, as can't study 12th , due to the pressure. No words, Paining.

These days many people, mainly Indians, hesitate to learn. One drawback is, right from the start , we are just following. I think that's mixed in our blood, we didn't create or tried to show our identity to others. That's the part we are lacking in our life.

I can't criticize anyone, being myself  following others footsteps. Tell you the simple example, though I know about blogs, I didn't create my own, until my friend started one. I haven't shared about my blog to anyone. When my friend said he got 1000 views to his blog, I enquired him about it. He said that he personally asked his friends to see his blog. After that only, I too shared it with you guys.

Engineering was the hot cake few years back. In some families parents stopped their education after schooling, when they see people who did graduation and settled in life, they too want their children to be like them. Engineering give you quick money, thus everyone wants their children to do it. After 12th, children too don't have any idea about future. Only thing visible to their naked eye is Engineering, due to the mass image it had. So, when parents too asking them to choose engineering, by mentioning some local names, how they settled in their life, children had no other go. They fell as prey for their parents desire, without knowing what's it all about. 

Just studying in book doesn't give you the life, you expect. If that's the case, pretty sure I will get brighter one. Jokes apart, we have to learn what is life. Life gives you room to experience all sort of feelings, you have to learn a thing every time.

This doesn't mean you don't have to follow a person. We can have a role model and idolize him, unless you lose your identity. All started following cricket, tried to become Sachin, only Virat emulated him. Even born child knows, how Virat idolizing Sachin. But he didn't follow the footsteps of Sachin. You can find out many differences between them. He knows people are blaming him for his aggressive behavior. Like dhoni, keeping his head cool is not the big job, but he doesn't. This shows his character of never lose identity.

Starting from simply thing to life changing event, we are not showing our uniqueness. We are discussing about the majority. From 120 billion, we can count in fingers who are unique in their own ways, that's not the big deal. Getting fame alone doesn't matter, I don't know how many of them heard about Arunachalam Muruganantham,( for info about him: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arunachalam_Muruganantham ) a Tamilan, who's not known among our fellow people, got recognition from TIME magazine as a the 100 Most Influential People in the world, for being unique. There are many people like him.

Satisfaction and Success comes to the people who show their Identity. It may take time to reach success. Till then we can be proud of ourselves for never backing out from the race. To tell you in more understanding way, be 1 in 10000000000000. 

Keep Smiling :) Never Lose Yourself :)

Keeping Promises the hardest thing ever

Hope everyone remembers me . If you guys were about to forget me, am here , posting my next blog, to tell you all about how I kept my promises all this month.

Despite my semester , I promised you that I will post at least one blog per week and you all know how I kept my promise, by posting my next blog after a month.  Its not that I completely forgot to write. Got many ideas on what to write, later sticked to write about Sachin, as his one year of retirement came on Nov 16. Then, planned to write an article to blame Sachin.

Yes, you all read it correct I wished to compose a post to blame, my idol, Sachin. Blaming is different from abusing. I want to blame him for many reasons, firstly for detached me from the sport I loved since my childhood. Next, he's the solo reason for the growth of cricket in a country where hockey is a national game. Many of them blaming cricket as it overshadows the other sports, but the truth is, Sachin is the person to blame for influencing the crores towards the game.

Leave it. I am here to talk, how I kept all my promises. Will blame Sachin in my next blog.

Next thing, before every exam,  I promised god , I will study next exam well and asked him to help me clear the exam gonna happen on that day. Every average student like me will keep this sort of promises.

Promised myself to do many things like visiting the temples oftenly, checking mail daily, involving myself in project works, planned to download some movies, wanna start for gate preparation, blah blah blah blah
Nothing worked out.

You may ask, then what the hell I did all this month, simply just Whatsapping.
I hadn't promised anyone. Sometimes I wonder what's there in Whatsapp, defnitely no one gonna use it usefully, except few. No wonder, the smarty Zuckerberg bought Whatsapp. Biggest and worthiest move happened in recent times. But have to accept that it gives us pleasure and make ourselves engaged with our friends and relations instantly. Feeling more happy and relaxed while using Social Networks.

It seems that I have written more than what I planned. Time to conclude.  Never promise and feel for not keeping up the promises. Just keep in the sub-memory that you want to do a thing, everyone can't do the thing within the time period. Even scientifically it's proved, nothing is 100% efficiency. Applies for humans too, not because its proved by human.

Enjoy every second. Don't look ahead in life. This may be weird. When you look ahead, you gonna feel the pressure. If you didn't believe, just think what you gonna be in future. I'll Wait.


Agreed ?
Atleast 99% of you feel some sort of pressure.This advice kinda thing is only for ordinary people like me.

This time I won't promise you guys, that I will post my next post within certain time peroid or else my mind will keep thinking on posting blog. All this blabbering is the result of one month thinking.

aahaa.. feeling relaxed
Keep Smiling :)